Oki little Go just had his milk..so i got abt erm...2.5hrs for myself b4 the next feeding time...will be blogging abit on the confinement and go take a short nap after this..
In order to save some cost i've decided not to have a confinement lady..erm actually save quite alot lah..since confinement lady is charging abt 1.4k ~2k...fortunately for me i got alot of helpers around..
Help no. 1: my mother-in-law...
Well i know i complain alot sometimes, but seriously i gotta thank alot to my mil..oki she gotta work, but yet she still find time to cook for my dinner..i use to not appreciate those things she does as i dont really like to be control by people and her ways of doing things is totally different from my own mummy..but as times past i have to admit im one lucky person..at least i dont have to worry abt corbin while im confined..i can still enjoy the "er ren shi jie" with hubby even being a mummy now as i know my sons will be in gd hand..my mil is alway giving them the best she can afford (sometime i notice she left all the gd food for hubby and me and eat the left over one herself)..even though sometime im frustrated that she spoiled my kid but which grandparents dont spoiled the grandchild..even my own mum, she alway said dont give in to the kids too much dun spoiled them dont buy them sweet..but yet she's doing all those now too..anyway for confinement, mil will be helping me to bath the bb since i cant bath bb now, she's also preparing red dates drink for me daily and cook for my dinner when she's home from work..
Help no.2: My mummy..
oki mummy sometime very cui ying xin ruan..she been visiting me at the hospital daily and also will be helping me to take care of bb too..well when i got lele mummy actually wanted to bbsit him and she's actually angry with me for abt 3mths and dont talk to me when i tell her that lele will be taken care by mil and maid..anyway this time we already promise to let bb taken care by her..mummy also will be cooking some "bu" for me during this confinement and will be helping me with lele sometimes so that my mil can get some rest.. Im really lucky right..dont have to worried abt where to put my sons since everyone wanna help me take care of them..that make me a VERY LAZY MUM...
Help no.3: My maid
oki she's new..my old maid was a big problem, she tell me she wanna go back just 1mth b4 my due date..anyway my new maid was with me for only abt 2weeks..so far she's been a great helper ..she actually wake up very early to help me clean the place so that bb can have a clean environment..anyway i really gotta thank her, especially middle of the night after feeding milk im too lazy to wash the milk bottle she'll help me with the washing without me even waking her up..she is quite "auto" i can said, when she see me wake up she will wake up and ask if i need help..in the middle of the night like 1 or 2 plus am..
Help no. 4: Hubby...
Oki this time round he's getting lazy..but still he do help me bulp the bb..even though he is not as helpful as the time i have corbin..i remember he used to help me feed the milk at night so that i can have enough sleep..but this time round he sleep through the night even when bb is crying..but cant blame him, since he's really busy at work now..and his bosses also dont allow him to take any leaves..was quite upset that sometimes when i really need him he cant take any leave..sigh anyway he's a father of 2 now, im glad that he is responsible enough to consider the fact that he cant lose his job..
As for my confinement lunch, im actually having a food caterer to prepare my lunch..since mil is working and maid gotta take care of lele..
Confinement lunch:
The confinement lunch was from newbaby.com and here some updates of my lunch today. Today menu is, red dates with papaya chicken soup, spiced belly pork with egg, broccoli stir fried with ginger..i can said the food were soso only can only rate abt 2.75/5 for today lunch..anyway for 14days lunch was $380 is abt $28 per lunch...
